2. What psychological effects does BDSM have on those who practice it?
Why Do People Like BDSM?
BDSM is a combined acronym of different activities and behaviors, such as Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism. Among people who practice BDSM, these activities are seen as an outlet for emotional release and exploration of consensual power exchange. While it is not for everyone, it can be a rewarding and fulfilling activity, both mentally and physically, for many individuals. The following are some of the benefits and considerations that help explain why some people enjoy BDSM.
Power and Control
Most BDSM activities are controlled by established guidelines and agreements between the two consenting parties. The “Dominant” (the person in power) and “submissive” (the person taking on a subservient role) are therefore able to explore the different feelings of power and control that come from consensual and often pre-defined limits. This may be an important and exciting opportunity for those who do not have precisely these kinds of power dynamics in other areas of their lives.
Trust and Communication
The BDSM experience can be as intimate as any other kind of relationship and can involve deep levels of trust and communication. The parties involved must communicate their fantasies, desires, and limits with one another, and must also be able to trust their partners to fulfill the agreed upon activities in a safe and respectful manner.
Physical and Mental Stimulation
The physical intensity of BDSM activities can create a heightened and more intense sexual experience than may be experienced otherwise. It can also be seen as an activity to “push the boundaries” and explore various levels of pleasure and pain. Moreover, beyond the physical aspect, BDSM can also be an opportunity to explore and express one’s own desires and fantasies in a safe and consensual manner.
Benefits of BDSM
- Increased trust and communication – As stated above, BDSM activities require the DOM and SUB to communicate their limits and desires to each other.
- Exploring feelings of power and control – Provides opportunity for exploration of power dynamics for those who may not have them in other areas of life.
- Enhanced sexual experience – BDSM activities may create a heightened and more intense sexual experience than may be otherwise experienced.
- A safe and respectful environment – With established guidelines and expectations of behavior, BDSM activities can be conducted in a safe and respectful environment.
BDSM is an activity that may provide individuals with a deeper level of connection and understanding of their desires and fantasies. Even within the BDSM “community”, safety and consent are paramount. As when engaging in any sexual activity, consent must be established before engaging in any BDSM session and it is important to adhere to the established guidelines and agreements. As long as these guidelines are respected, BDSM can be an extremely fulfilling and rewarding experience.